A brush with death

One of the reasons for taking the little dog to the behaviourist (he accompanies me while it's actually me who gets training) is so that I can learn how to brush him and so he can get used to that sort of mithering contact so I can bribe somebody with clippers to come round and cut his wiginess without them getting their fingers bitten off.

It's a very slow process that involves bribing him with tasty and extremely smelly treats, namely chopped up bits of braised lamb offal. FYI braised lambs hearts have the same smell as any cooked lamb, which I find bizarre. Anyway, the process of brushing His Lordship involves a handful of lamb bits, a lead, a brush (which he must not see). He gets held in place with a short lead while I shove bits of meat into his mouth and try to touch him with the brush. After an arduous and bad tempered start, and rapid stop, we're making progress! I have so far brushed quite a bit of his back, his tail, the back of his neck, the top of his head, his beard, his back legs. His tummy is some way off yet, and first rule of doggy fight club is "DO NOT LET IT DEVELOP INTO A FIGHT!" Apparently, Cesar Millan's way of holding down a pooch until it submits to your will just won't work with a dog like Rocky and you have to use the softly, softly, catchy monkey method. This means that any sign of stress from the dog and we stop.

Why couldn't I get a normal dog? I should've known when I saw his dad (as mental as he is) and him as a 12 week old pup - I think it was a 12 week old pup that I saw; all I witnessed was a little black blob of excitement tearing around his first mum's kitchen. Cute though.

And now he's doing toxic farts.

Going Dutch
I really hate the way the Dutch speak when they speak in English. I don't care how they speak when they speak Dutch because I obviously switch off. I don't care that they have nothing to do but learn fifteen different languages by the time they're out of nappies, I can't stand the way they speak English.

I pity my cousin though. She's from Liverpool, but married a Dutch man and has lived in Holland since the late 1980s. She speaks Dutch very well, but has forgotten how to speak English, which given her unfortunate start in this aspect of her life, puts her at quite a disadvantage when she comes back to England. Her accent/language is now what can be described as Douse, or Scutch I suppose.

Even worse than the Dutch English accent is when English people copy the Dutch English accent for the sake of comedy or advertising. Why do people do it? Why do people think that the Dutch are significant enough to use as characters in films or adverts? And when they do deem it absolutely necessary to include such people, why don't they go for an authentic Dutch person instead of some English cunt doing a Dutch accent?

Gawd. Just a thought.

Notting Hill
Notting Hill is on telly. It has Hugh Grant playing Hugh Grant in it. There's not really much that I can add to that.

But why???

I rarely listen to the radio: I have an intense dislike of the BBC stations presenters' narcissistic obsession with hearing their own voice at the expense of providing entertainment, or simply playing some music; the adverts on commercial radio are generally too frequent and too irritating. But I do listen to my local commercial radio station as I travel to work each morning; the presenters are actually funny and are almost in touch with their listeners, making references to local events, places, customs, etc. My tiredness at 7am generally means that I can block out the irritating segments and, more importantly, the adverts. Except two:

Lufthansa European flight deals
Woman: "Come on, stop doing that now, we've got to pack."
Child: "But why?"
Woman: "Because we're going away on a short break."
Child: "But why?"
Woman: "Because Lufthansa have got some good deals and we're leaving today."
Child: "But whyyyyyyyyy?"

After the first "But why?", I'm ready to unclip my seatbelt and drive into the nearest brick wall at full speed, so by the third, I really want to take a whole load of innocent bystanders with me too.

<strong?Volkswagen commercial vehicles
In this advert, we have a bloke with a rough voice and ridiculously strong Cockney accent, talking about Vowkswaaagen Commerciaw Vayns. He says "vayns" about ten times. I will punch him if I ever meet him.

SHUT THE FUCK UP!

There is something intensely irritating, to the point of driving me to the edge of murder, about the sound of children's voices, particularly when they're being deliberately irritating... or singing. Why do advertisers insist on using annoyance and regional accents in their adverts. Will I be tempted to use Lufthansa, or to buy a Volkswagen van because of these adverts? Hell no!

For fuck's sake.

Come dine with me
I am currently cooking some delectable cuts of meat in the oven. Yes, I am braising some lambs' hearts. Stuffed with breadcrumbs and fresh herbs for me? No, they're braised as they come with all their bits for the dog. I actually had good fun washing the things before I put them in the roasting tin. They being hearts, they have chambers and tubes and things; you can fill one chamber with water and it then squirts out of one of the large blood vessels. Brilliant. But holding that cold organ in my hand, and looking at my little dog, I'm led to thinking that his little heart is probably no bigger than the very one that was not long ago beating inside the bouncy body of a New Zealand lamb. Awwww. But that's life, and farming, and meat supply, and dog rehabilitation.

They actually look quite nice...



... they're made the house smell a bit though.

During Rocky's remedial behavioural lessons, it's been discovered that the best way to bribe the little shit is with bits of cooked heart - the £3 bag of training treats just don't do the trick sometimes and we need to bring out the heavy artillery when needs be.

Anyway, it'll all be worth it when I can take him for a walk safe in the knowledge that he's not going to kick off at the slightest little thing, and when I can invite a groomer round to clip him without being worried that he'll attack somebody.


Spring has sprung
My mood has lightened somewhat over the past week or so. The days are getting longer, the weather warm, even the sun has been shining. Sniffy feels good.

The love of common people

I went to a restaurant on Friday night. I also went to a restaurant last Saturday night. I ate out for lunch yesterday too.

Fat pig.

Anyway, I love eating at restaurants; there's something absolutely lovely about having having a choice of meals that you'd probably not cook for yourself, about having food brought to you, about being waited on, about enjoying the company and conversation of others while having a meal.


Canal Street, Manchester


But a pleasant experience like having a meal out wouldn't be the same without one of the party being slightly annoying; not even annoying, just doing something that I wouldn't think acceptable. For instance, at the restaurant last Saturday, there'd been a mistake with the booking and we had to wait for a table to come free instead of being seated immediately. The waiter gave us each a menu and asked if we didn't mind waiting in the bar until they could free up a table. Forty minutes later, we were seated and given another five minutes until the waiter returned to take our order. It was at this point that one of the party decided to look at the menu for the first time.

I held my breath.

More wine flowed, I enjoyed my Diet Pepsi (no ice) and the starters came. Mine was moules marinere - fuckin' delish, if you like that sort of thing. My good friend, and she is a great friend, then said that she didn't fancy trying mussels because she was scared, but could she dip some garlic bread into the sauce to give it a try? Of course she could, which she did, repeatedly, while I was trying to eat my food.

Don't mind me.

And then my main course arrived. Essentially it was steak and chips, but the chips in that restaurant (Velvet, Manchester) are wonderful. My companions weren't getting chips with their meals, so they took it upon themselves to tuck into mine.

What the fuck?

Is it just me? Would you do that? In the pavilion of etiquette, does that count as being really fucking rude?

I don't mind toooo much because the company was exceptional apart from their unconventional dining standards, and they'd been drinking and I was stone cold sober, so I tend to notice more.

It's like that thing, isn't it? "Oh I don't want any crisps, I'll just have a couple of yours". No you fucking won't! You only get about ten in a packet and you're not touching them, cheeky twat.

On Friday, me and another friend went to a very nice restaurant together (Choice in Manchester), where the ambience is perfect, but the food always gives my friend an excuse to find criticism. She's a bit of a foodie, so she likes things to be just right. I suppose if you're paying, then you've a right to expect good quality. And it's fair enough to give feedback to the waiters when they ask if everything's OK, but there's a certain point where you need to stop, generally when the message has got through, and just before the waiter reached the threshold that makes them instruct the kitchen staff to spit in your pudding.

But it was nice, another lovely night out. Me and Sarah now find ourselves single. She's a good friend and I enjoy her company and I'm looking forward to getting out and about with her as my wingman, although I am slightly scared of her when her confidence is in Rioja-fuelled hyperdrive. We'll see.


Rocky and the Dog Whisperer
Rocky is in remedial behavioural classes. One-to-one behavioural classes at £25 a time. His trainer is quite famous apparently. I arrived at her little yard and her appearance was as I'd expected: rambler clothing; a hat (fair enough since she's outdoors all day).

Lesson 1: The the gentle leader; the dummy and the heart of an ox
We discussed his diet. "Why do you give him dry food? He's a dog! Dogs are carnivores. I recommend this. It stinks, but it's really good. You need to get him motivated by food. One great way of controlling your dog is to control his food and you can't do that if he doesn't like what you give him. He needs to be almost begging for his meal and then you can control him with it".

Fair point.

I wondered how much the smelly meaty food would cost. Jesus, this is going to rack up.

"Let me see him on his lead"

By this point, the little dog had reached ten thousand feet mentally and was bouncing like something on a bouncy castle. She got the message about his woeful lead skills (my woeful lead skills) pretty quickly and went into her little wooden cabin to retrieve a Gentle Leader head harness and double-ended training lead. To entice him to walk on his lead, he was fed bits of boiled ox heart every couple of paces. I had a pocket full of cheese and ox heart bits, my hands were covered in it. Fuck.

After getting him used to walking with the new lead, she had me lead him round a little activity course while she brought out a life-sized dummy dog and stood with it at the other end of the yard. Rocky had already gone mental at a dog silhouette, so he went berserk when he saw what he thought was a dopey looking black labrador staring at him from the distance. I calmed him down by the power of cheese and he was a little better when she brought the next dummy dog out. She moved the head and tail of this one and, while Rocky had a look at it, he didn't jump out of his skin. And when she brought out a real dog, while he was far from perfect, he managed to walk around it without an unmanageable degree of distress.

So, that was lesson one: change his diet (kerching!), get him a double-ender (kerching!!) and a gentle leader (kerching!!!); that's £25 thanks and I'll see you in a fortnight (KERCHING!!!!).

Anyway, I've changed his diet, bought his new equipment and I've been trying to install the new world order on our cheesy walks - he must get through half a pound each time I take him out. Of course, my back is wrecked from all that bending over to give him a treat every four paces, but it'll be worth it, I hope. Today wasn't too good unfortunately - we encountered a jogger being followed by his dog (who then turned round and ran passed us from behind within a minute of passing us in the forward direction); this was followed immediately by two cyclists; a walker; and another dog walker - all in the space of about 2 minutes. Rocky couldn't cope - knowing that pulling would hurt his nose, he defaulted to barking his head off for the remainder of our ten minute walk home.

We'll get there. He's got two years of bad behaviour to unlearn and I've got to train myself to be more disciplined with him.

Yawn.

One interesting thing about Rocky's new therapist is that she trains Police dogs for GMP. I must ask Jo if it was her who house-trained Pigsnout.

Out of sync

You know that thing from the 1970s when, for one reason or another, foreign films were always dubbed into English, as opposed to the translation being provided by subtitles? I think this might be related to the sorts of foreign films that I used to see back then; they were mainly spaghetti westerns, whose audience probably wouldn't have appreciated having to attempt reading while trying to keep up with the twists and turns of the intricate plot and character interactions. Anyway, the thing about dubbed films that really bugged me was the way the characters' mouths didn't move in time to what was being said. I'd go further and say that it really got on my tits. Of course, a spaghetti western's dialogue was limited to the odd grunt from Clint and Lee van Cleef, and the occasional "This is my moment of stardom" from a young Spanish actress playing the whore in the only saloon bar for miles, so there was never much of a mismatch between mouths moving and sound coming out.

These days, if I'm watching a foreign film, it has subtitles, which I like. I'm sure the translations are pretty faithful, since I find myself enjoying the film and generally understanding everything that's going on. Watching a film in its original format is also often much better than watching it after Hollywood have given the story its own particular brand of sparkle (The Ring, The Grudge, etc). So that's good.

Now, I have a thing for the cinema - I really don't like it that much: too expensive, too many other people, too dark, too loud, too not at home. This being the case, I'd much rather watch a film at home: no rushing to get to the cinema on time; snacks to hand; pause button; volume control. It doesn't take too long for a film to come out on DVD these days, but if you really can't wait that long, all sorts of cheeky people put them on internet even before they're released at the cinema and you sometimes come across them and download and burn them to DVD by accident. Sometimes though, when you come to watch them, the sound is hopelessly out of sync with the image.

What's all that about then? It's really annoying and I'm certainly not going to watch a film at the pictures when they can't sync the sound properly. No way Jose!

And why don't people who make DVD players or TVs come up with some sort of technology where you can re-phase the sound with the image?


Politics
I might get political. I'm thinking of getting involved in politics so I can feel like I'm doing my bit in the fight against the systematic erosion of the British people's civil liberties.

Here are some of the laws and proposed laws (quoted from Philip Pullman, writing in The Times) that we have had forced on us under the Labour Government over the past ten years or so:

It is inconceivable to me that a waking nation in the full consciousness of its freedom would have allowed its government to pass such laws as the Protection from Harassment Act (1997), the Crime and Disorder Act (1998), the Regulation of Investigatory Powers Act (2000), the Terrorism Act (2000), the Criminal Justice and Police Act (2001), the Anti-Terrorism, Crime and Security Act (2001), the Regulation of Investigatory Powers Extension Act (2002), the Criminal Justice Act (2003), the Extradition Act (2003), the Anti-Social Behaviour Act (2003), the Domestic Violence, Crime and Victims Act (2004), the Civil Contingencies Act (2004), the Prevention of Terrorism Act (2005), the Inquiries Act (2005), the Serious Organised Crime and Police Act (2005), not to mention a host of pending legislation such as the Identity Cards Bill, the Coroners and Justice Bill, and the Legislative and Regulatory Reform Bill

We are the most watched nation in the developed world and nobody seems to be doing anything about it. We are turning into a Police State, where anti-terrorism laws can be used against people taking photographs in public places. We're not allowed to gather to protest in numbers greater than two at a time. We have our DNA stolen and stored on a database if we are arrested, and the information retained even if no charges are brought - there are about one million innocent people, some never even charged with an offence, whose DNA is stored.

Our Information Commissioner, the man put in place to try to ensure that privacy laws are adhered to, wrote an excellent piece in The Times too. In it, he warned that proposals to allow widespread data sharing between Whitehall and the private sector were too far-reaching and that plans to create a giant database of every telephone call, e-mail and text message risked turning everyone into a suspect. “In the last 10 or 15 years a great deal of surveillance in public and private places has been extended without sufficient thought to the risks and consequences,” said Mr Thomas, 59. “Our society is based on liberty and democracy. I do not want to see excessive surveillance hardwired into British society.”

Nothing to hide, nothing to fear? What happens when you don't want the government to know which websites you visit, who you phone, who you e-mail? We have everything to fear.

I know it's hypocritical for somebody to complain about lack of privacy and then go and spout off on the internet, but how long before we're not allowed freedom of speech in these sorts of forums before the Police come knocking when what we write is deemed inapprorpriate?

Will the people do anything? No, I doubt it. I'm sat here whinging about it and doing fuck all. But no more, I'm going to be stand up and be counted! I'm off to join the militant wing of the Women's Institute.